I am having trouble manifesting what I want, I feel like am holding myself back in all areas of my life, I ask the universe for guidance as I am not seeing any progress, this makes me frustrated and as if am not doing things correctly. It’s discouraging when others have faith in you and I don’t have faith in myself. It’s like I need a mentor to show me the steps. But life seems very depressing at times, as I don’t know what I want or how to maneuver the life I want.
Your question reveals the answer: you don’t have faith in yourself, dear one~
The universe is always there guiding us and showing us what can be possible. We can feel it inside of ourselves, with love and intuitive insights when we are vibrating at the same level as the universe. When we’re not vibrating at that level, it is kind of like a dog whistle… you can’t hear it because in that moment you are not attuned to it, but that doesn’t mean that the universe isn’t blowing the whistle to guide you.
The first step is to feel better first. When you feel good about yourself and your happy, your whole world begins to change, because you’re looking at it from a different perspective.
How can you do that?
That depends on what you love to do! For me, being out in nature always makes me feel better. If something is stressing me out, or I have too much on my plate, or I’m getting frustrated with something not working out, I take a break and get outside. If the weather is nice and warm, I’m definitely barefoot.
Other things I reach for include:
smudging my energy field like with sage, palo santo, incense or by ringing my Tibetan bowl
listening to music
dancing or going for a walk
spending time with my kitty cat- her purrs always cheer me up 🙂
The self love comes first, then you can start to see the support that is around you all the time.
You’re right, having a Spiritual Mentor, or even surrounding yourself with friends who are also spiritually focused does help you to stay on track tremendously. I do offer a one on one Spiritual Mentorship program, which you can explore, as well as a Group Spiritual Mentorship program, which I offer a few times a year.
Allow yourself to get to that better feeling place and remember that the synchronicities that you are looking for happen the most when your happy first, rather than waiting to see the results you’re looking for to make you happy.
With love, from your Soul
Please remember to do a quick check in with your heart to make sure this perspective resonates with you 🙂