I feel like I have come to a bit of a crossroads in my relationship.
Sometimes I feel like fear is holding me back from moving forward and sometimes I feel like the universe is giving me signs that this is not the right path for me.
Do I move forward in this relationship? What is holding me back? Is this the right relationship for me?
Signed, Confused
Dear Confused,
Thank you so much for your kind email, and for your trust.
When I read your email, I got goosebumps all over my body. To me that is a intuitive sign of truth.
I know that feeling of excitement and fear when you are about to take on a big step in your life. The fear that is holding you back is the fear of making a wrong choice… and we often hold back in so many areas of our lives by begin worried about making decisions… so worried that we avoid making that decision. I used to DREAD making decisions. Meditation and learning how to dowse with a pendulum helped me tremendously. I learned that there are no “mistakes” in life, just different learning experiences 🙂 It took me at least a year, if not more to fully get to that place. It’s building trust with your intuition.
I have to tell you that you and your partner feel like a perfect ying and yang.
He’s a good man. He’s not perfect. No one is, but his heart is gold, he will treat you right and he will help you discover a happy life. And you will open him up too.
Go for it. As scary as it may seem, it will be amazing in the end~
Best wishes for a magical happily every after ~
With love, from your Soul
P.S. Always check in with your heart to see if this is the right thing for you- you get final say in what to do:)